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The 'confession' 'shudder of the naked girl taking pictures sent to strangers

“One of my skimpy photos went viral even though I tried to keep them private. Some other photos are shown on friends' walls. Rumors spread everywhere, ”she said.

Below is a letter from Gabbi to teenage girls about the sexual temptations she experienced. The letter is a wake-up call for gullible little girls who fall into the sex chat trap of sexually active guys.

"If you're looking for a specific message from this letter, just remember one thing: Don't send nudity to anyone!

This is also the central issue that I will address in this letter because at the age of 13 no one told me how dangerous it is to send nudity to strangers. Nobody advised me not to do that.

Remember when I was 13, a guy sent me a message with obscene and erotic language. I will not become a victim of the sender of this message. But I'm curious.

I don't know much about sex and am also very afraid to talk obscene. I will reply to his message in the middle of the night, when I have covered the blanket and put the phone under my pillow so that if my parents are in the room I will not find out.

I never used obscene messages of guy to masturbate because it did not work for me. I don't know if it's fear or worry about sex. I just know that one of the reasons I reply to that message is to satisfy the need for recognition. I want to be recognized as an adult.

Not everything about sex is unsafe. But if you do something sexy because you think you have no other choice or you're feeling confused by something, stop. It is not sexy but a dangerous act. Find a trusted friend to chat with, find another way to be safer.

In my case it's a big deal. I understand that everyone will have to go through puberty. Your body is more developed and naturally the people around you will discuss the topic of sex.

Your parents will talk to you about this topic and the boys will begin to notice you in different ways. I have experienced it, so I understand.

When I was 13, a boy asked me if my breasts were big enough for him to touch. I looked up the information, looked at the explanation in the dictionary and answered that he was B size. At that time I did not understand that it was still developing naturally. I felt inferior because my chest didn't seem big enough. I wonder if I'm unattractive because of the small breasts?

You don't need to learn how to understand your body from a guy who wants to see your nudity. Never feel guilty about your body. Talk to older girls, read books, watch educational clips. Please understand your body before allowing others to touch them.

One of the body's natural manifestations is pleasure. There is nothing wrong with having pleasure. But pleasure is of your body, not of others.

When I was 13, I didn't know that if I was scared, I should stop. If I feel uncomfortable placing the camera between my blocks, I need to tell the person who is chatting with me that I don't want to do it. If I don't want to have sex, it's best if I don't respond to messages from sex guys.

Because sex and anything related to sex are based on mutual understanding. So whenever you feel uncomfortable, boldly say no.

There will be a lot of pressure when you say yes and that pressure does not diminish even as you get older. There will always be people who force you to do or say something that you are uncomfortable with.

So from a young age, you learn to refuse, so that you can master your life later. It took me 3 years to learn how to say "no".

When I was 13 years old, when I went to church I just hid in the toilet or sat in the hallway but didn't dare to face God because I thought my deeds were dirty. Now, I'm far from home to go to college.

When I was 13, I was living with my parents. I'm scared every time I unlock the phone in front of them. After 6 years, everything is going on. I am still human, I want to be recognized and appreciated. The only difference is if I want to have sex now it's legal because I'm old enough.

And six years ago, I was still a teenage girl, that was against the law. If you ask me 6 years ago what I thought about sex chat, I would answer "it makes sense". But now it is different.

They are not as meaningful as I thought. One of my skimpy photos went viral even though I tried to keep them private. Some other photos are shown on friends' walls. Rumors spread everywhere. Many years after that incident, I discovered that my friends still made me the subject of discussion in their conversations.

Naked pictures don't make me more confident about my body, Japanese Fuck they make me depressed. I think I'm messy and worthless. I don't think having sex makes you feel disgusted.

I mean, teenage sexual behaviors when you're not ready will hurt you for the rest of the time. Remember you don't have to force yourself to make others comfortable. Definitely say "no".

I know, at the age of 13 everyone wants to stand out and be noticed. I also used to like people praising the beautiful, long legs at that age. I want my body to be like the sexy women that everyone compliments.

But trust me, then your body will be as you want it, they're still growing, so you don't need to have sex when you don't want it just because you want your body to look sexy.

When I was 13, I didn't realize it, nor did I know how to say no. That is exactly why I tell you today. You can say "no" when you are uncomfortable.

Keep thinking about sex, talk about sex, develop healthy notions of sex but don't force yourself to practice them as minors. Don't let your teenage years belong to other people, especially those who just want your body. Protect yourself! ".